February 7th, 2010
what u cant achieve, is to achieve evrything.
Sacrifices muz be made, and u muz let go of things sometimes. U cant appease evry1, u cant fix evrything. This is wad i've discovered today. No matter how much u try to fix things, it may not work out all the time. Altho i rly want an explanation(which i doubt i'll ever get), i shall juz suck it up now.
I went CNY shopping wif chao & jingwei today, wah super long nvr go out with them. I only managed to buy a shirt at a steal (20 bucks only leh! At 1st 40 bucks kay!) I wanted to get another shirt at 40 bucks becoz i liked the colour theme alot but yc and jw strongly went against the idea, saying that it was not worth it so i only got 1 thing ITH.
Went to watch spy next door and the movie is only so-so. I still wanna watch tooth fairy tho!
CNY is coming! Im kinda excited, not juz because of the angpaos hor! I can finally catch up wif my cousins, and most importantly my family. CNY here i come~~~ BAKKWA BAKKWA BAKKWA BAKKWA.
It takes 1 hour to have a crush one someone, a day to like someone, maybe a week to love someone, but an entire lifetime to forget someone. If u truly loved someone, u can NEVER forget that person.
If a guy truly loves a girl, he wun juz love her for her looks, nor becoz shes pefect, but rather, that girl is the most beautiful to the guy in his eyes, and he has learnt to see her imperfectons, perfectly. Guys can comment on other chiobus, bio them or wadsoever, but at the end of the day, before we go to sleep, theres only 1 person that we'll rmb - that girl that we love. That will be the only girl that can attract the attention of the guy in the crowd.
No matter how busy a guy is, he'll always make time out for the girl he loves. Becoz he cant truly have fun or enjoy anytin without the girl he loves.
I've learnt a lesson. The person dat u love can hurt u, but u shud NEVER hurt the person that u love.
U girls nvr truly understand how guys feel. U girls tink dat guys are always the ones breaking girl's heart, guys are playboys blablabla. But do u noe that when a guy truly love a girl, we devote EVRYTIN we haf to that girl. Time, money, love etc. U girls nvr truly appreciate how fortunate it is to receive a guy's true love. All girls see are the wrongs, the mistakes, the imperfections of guys by comparing with other guys.
"Oh his nose is too big! Man his eyes are too small! That guy is a bastard lah, how can he do this!"
BUT, haf u girls actually learn how to accept our mistakes, our imperfections? NO. If u truly love someone, u'll forgive him/her for wdv she has done. Becoz at the end of the day, u'll only rmb the nice things he/she has done for u.
Girls come into a relationship, most of the time, unprepared. U girls wna try things and hope it'll work out. When things are happy, girls shower the guy with love. But when problem arises, when u feel hurt, u leave the guy ALONE to settle things himself, thinking dat hes strong and matured enuff to handle it himself. Like as if we'll be less hurt than the girl? Bullshit.
U girls thought wrong. We may seem tough on the outside, but we're rly weak on the inside. Do u noe how much more do guys' tears cost? We dun cry when we feel pain, we only cry when sometin really means alot to us, some1 dat rly made a big impact in our life. What girls do is to look at the surface, without getting the full picture of the story, and then pass a judgement whether the guy was worth ur time. Some girls can juz BAM and move on with life, but guys cant. If we rly love someone, it'll take a rly long time to get over it.
We're willing to give evrytin we have for love. We wun mind if we were to go against the wishes or opinion of our family if we tink that the girl is really the one for us. But girls? They falter and back out when the stress sets in, either frm friends, family or work. If u truly love someone, no1 and no obstacle can stand in ur way.
Whatever i say about girls today might not be 100% true, but whatever i say about guys today is 99% accurate. Girls, pls start tinking for guys. If ur not rdy for a relationship, dun even start. A relationship takes 2 hands to clap, theres only so much that a guy can do, the rest is up to the girl.
U guys may ask, who am i to talk about love? Im juz 18! Ur right. I may not know abt true love perfectly, but i've lost enough, hurt enough over the past month to understand what izzit like to lose some1 u rly treasure.
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